Honestly, being a business owner can be hard – hell being a human can feel impossible at times. When you have a cloud over your head and are not hitting your goals or experience growth in the way you think you ‘should’ you may start to wonder what you are DOING wrong. Wondering how you could DO MORE. How you could get on the right track and why these annoying roadblocks keep getting in your way?
Why bother looking for the silver lining when inevitably there will be something new and disruptive come up?
It’s in the understanding of, healing and acceptance of our roadblocks and shit storms personally and business-wise that prompt us into a position that is so uncomfortable we are pushed into shifting. It is feeling that anxiety, fear, and excitement about pushing through perceived failures to get to the expanded versions of ourselves on the other side.
The key lies in your ability to harness your personal power, as though it were a vine and swing from your place of defeat/ frustration/ stuck/ overwhelm all the way to CHOOSING to look deeper at the issue. Choosing to look at why you do what you do, and what patterns are contributing to the issue at hand. Most of the time it’s pretty simple but so many of us feel we have to make it hard. That in itself is a pattern – and that ain’t serving no one!
Once you start to get an understanding of what is at the root of causing your discomfort, again it’s time for a choice. Your choice to grab that personal power vine once again (even if you are tired AF) and swing from understanding your issue to forgiving it. To accepting where you are at. To fill yourself up with self-love and compassion anyway.
From here the grabbing the personal power vine and swinging gets a lot easier. From here we start to naturally move to the solution energy. Our hands want to reach up and grab the vine, because we’ve filled up with top shelf emotions, forgiveness and self-love. This starts to create some momentum and if you CHOOSE to follow it and allow yourself some time to feel joy in any area of your life you are moving faster and faster towards your solution, and your personal power is upgraded too. You’ve made it through. You’ve made the choice to be led by your personal power. Not to stay on the island of problems, but instead to see what is just out of sight, just around the corner and keep swinging that way.
Because deep down your WHY is worth it. Your SOUL MISSION is bigger than your negative emotions and you have the power to rise above. When you feel that personal power it feels amazing.
From this place you create gold. You take action steps towards the life and business of your dreams, that are based on integrity, joy and love. From this place, you walk confidently on your path.
It’s not about avoiding the islands of negative emotion and work-life shit shows. It’s about making a CHOICE to grab on to your personal power every single step of the way and to keep going.
The more you practice this the easier it will be to swing back to the solution energy, and you will thank yourself for consistently doing the work – especially when big stuff comes up, you’ll be shocked at the strength you’ve gained.